You’re too skinny
You’re too fat
You’re too smart
You’re too slow
You’re too shy
You’re too social
You flirt too much
You don’t flirt enough
You lift too much
You don’t lift enough
You wear too little makeup
You wear too much makeup
My personal favorite “you’re too independent”
Is there even such a thing?
Perhaps, I missed the birth of it.
I’m almost positive at some point in life, you’ve been told one of these “you’re too this or that…”
Many of us are guilty of letting these opinions dictate our lives (myself included); that we begin to judge ourselves oh so harshly. In actuality, there is no need to because
a.) opinions are not truths and b.) most people’s opinions are based on how they perceive themselves.
My suggestion – surround yourselves with people who like YOU for who YOU are and will celebrate YOU for who YOU are. Because, who YOU are, is an original masterpiece.
If the people around you do not embody such qualities. Please…PLEASE find a new tribe.
